Find yourself again.

Discover how to get your life back with me, Blaise, a counselor who helps people connect deeply with themselves and find tools for lasting change in Colorado Springs and throughout Colorado.

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How can counseling help?

You’re doing (mostly) fine on the outside…but there’s a vague sense that something’s off in your life - a quiet discomfort. A disconnection from yourself. Things feel less than alive, even though they look okay on paper.

You don’t have to keep pushing through alone. Counseling is a place to slow down, be honest with yourself, and reconnect with what matters most through relationship with another human.

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What brings people to my office…

  • Carrying too much pain, confusion, or loss alone

  • Feeling stuck in painful emotional and relational patterns

  • Being super hard on themselves (critical, harsh, judgmental)

  • Going through the motions of life but knowing that something needs to change

Explore what truly matters.

Explore what truly matters.

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We all have trouble with thoughts and feelings that seem confusing or unbearable. But when we just shut our feelings down (or use thinking to push them away), we often experience anxiety, depression, or just feel overwhelmed.

If you’re longing to reconnect with yourself and feel more deeply, I can help. Together we’ll carefully uncover what’s going on inside, sort through the confusion, and work to get your life back.

Ways to work with me as your counselor…

At some point in life we all need a safe harbor where we can experience support and have time to sort through things. I provide a space where you’ll feel heard and understood without judgement so you can get to the root of the problem, which will support lasting change and relief.

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Individual Counseling

Therapy is a place to slow down, be heard, and figure out what’s really going on beneath the surface. Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just not like yourself, we’ll work together to uncover patterns, explore what you need, and help you move toward a life that feels more grounded and alive.

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Trauma Counseling

What happened to you doesn’t have to define you. Trauma shows up in ways we don’t always expect—anxiety, burnout, perfectionism, feeling disconnected from yourself or others. In therapy, we’ll create a safe space to work through the pain of the past, so you can stop carrying it all alone and start living more fully in the present.

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Spirituality & Counseling

You might feel disconnected from your faith, searching for meaning, struggling with guilt, doubt, or a sense of emptiness. In counseling, we’ll create a supportive space to explore your spiritual questions and reconnect with your values, purpose, and inner peace, so you can move forward with greater clarity, hope, and wholeness.

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Meet Blaise Selby, MA, LPCC

Your guide for the inner journey.

I want to help you find more connection to yourself and your life. Together, we will explore your inner world to uncover what’s been hidden beneath the surface so you can take steps toward lasting change.

Counseling provides a space to slow down, reflect, and gain clarity about what truly matters to you. My goal is to help you move forward with presence, insight, and a deeper connection to yourself. There’s no ‘one-size-fits-all’ approach - so we’ll figure out what you need together by listening deeply and getting curious.

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